{"id":13179,"date":"2022-09-29T12:11:23","date_gmt":"2022-09-29T09:11:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dance.lt\/new\/?p=13179"},"modified":"2022-09-29T12:13:12","modified_gmt":"2022-09-29T09:13:12","slug":"stebetis-su-meile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dance.lt\/new\/2022\/09\/29\/stebetis-su-meile\/","title":{"rendered":"Steb\u0117ti(s) (su) meile"},"content":{"rendered":"

Motinyst\u0117 \/ t\u0117vyst\u0117 \u2013 vis da\u017eniau visuomen\u0117je diskutuojamos s\u0105vokos. Dar neseniai buvusios tokios, regis, paprastos, per am\u017eius nusistov\u0117jusios, tod\u0117l savaime suprantamos ir ai\u0161kiai apibr\u0117\u017etos, pastaraisiais de\u0161imtme\u010diais jos dinami\u0161kai kinta. \u0160iuolaikiniai t\u0117vai b\u0117ga nuo stereotip\u0173 (arba, atvirk\u0161\u010diai, grie\u017etai j\u0173 laikosi), ie\u0161ko nauj\u0173 t\u0117vyst\u0117s \/ motinyst\u0117s metod\u0173 (arba remiasi perimtais i\u0161 savo t\u0117v\u0173), gr\u012f\u017eta prie nat\u016brali\u0173 metod\u0173 (arba i\u0161skirtinai pasikliauja technologijomis). Vis da\u017eniau kalbama apie t\u0117\u010di\u0173 \u012fsitraukimo svarb\u0105. Vis da\u017eniau nagrin\u0117jama ir \u0161iuolaikini\u0173 mam\u0173 situacija: kalt\u0117s fenomenas, santykis su pasikeitusiu k\u016bnu, (ne)gr\u012f\u017eus \u012f darb\u0105 kylantys i\u0161\u0161\u016bkiai, (ne)\u012fmanomas \u0161eimos ir karjeros balansas. \u0160iuolaikin\u0117s mamos vis da\u017eniau gali rinktis savo tapatyb\u0119, formuoti, keisti, derinti skirtingus t\u0117vyst\u0117s ar aukl\u0117jimo metodus. Ta\u010diau kitaip nei kadaise, \u0161iuolaikin\u0117s \u0161eimos vaikus vis da\u017eniau augina vienos (be kaimo, i\u0161 to posakio apie tai, kiek m\u016bs\u0173 i\u0161 ties\u0173 reikia vaikui u\u017eauginti), tad spaudimas \u0161iuolaikiniams t\u0117vams, nepaisant buit\u012f ne\u012ftik\u0117tinai palengvinan\u010di\u0173 technologij\u0173, vis d\u0117lto kaip niekada didelis, o ry\u0161ys tarp vaik\u0173 ir t\u0117v\u0173, kaip niekad svarbus. Tuo \u012fsitikinti teko ne vienai vaikus auginan\u010diai \u0161eimai pandemijos periodu.<\/p>\n

B\u016btent pandemijos laikotarpis \u012fkv\u0117p\u0117 lietuvi\u0173 kilm\u0117s, Vokietijoje reziduojan\u010dios \u0161ok\u0117jos ir choreograf\u0117s Raimondos Gudavi\u010di\u016bt\u0117s \u0161okio spektaklio \u201eM(other)\u201c suk\u016brim\u0105. Pirmiausia \u0161okio filmo pavidalu pasirod\u0119s darbas, v\u0117liau \u012fgavo pilnaver\u010dio \u0161okio spektaklio pavidal\u0105. \u0160iais metais jis atstovavo Lietuv\u0105 Taline vykusioje Baltijos \u0161okio platformoje<\/a> ir tarptautin\u0117je \u0161okio mug\u0117je Tanzmesse NRW Diuseldorfe, buvo pristatytas Lietuvos \u017ei\u016brovams tarptautiniame scenos men\u0173 festivalyje \u201ePlartforma\u201c Klaip\u0117doje, o dabar t\u0119sia kelion\u0119 Europos scenose.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Donato Bielkausko nuotraukos\/Tarptautinis men\u0173 festivalis Plartforma, Klaip\u0117da
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Kartu su dramaturge Ingrida Gerbutavi\u010di\u016bte sukurtas spektaklis \u201eM(other)\u201c \u2013 tai vis\u0173 pirma pokalbis. Pokalbis tarp mamos ir vaiko, tarp mamos ir visuomen\u0117s, tarp \u0161ok\u0117jos ir publikos. \u0160iame pokalbyje dalyvauja ne tik R. Gudavi\u010di\u016bt\u0117, bet ir dar vienas spektaklio bendraautorius \u2013 a\u0161tuonmetis jos s\u016bnus Elias.<\/p>\n

Mama ir s\u016bnus \u2013 Raimonda ir Elias \u2013 pasakoja ne abstrak\u010di\u0105, o labai konkre\u010di\u0105, savo istorij\u0105. Tad ir kalba jiems artimomis, suprantamomis, savomis kalbomis: berniukas \u2013 futbolo ir breiko, mama \u2013 \u0161iuolaikinio \u0161okio judesiais. Derinant buitinius ir \u0161okio judesius, futbolas virsta \u0161okiu, o \u0161okio judesi\u0173 sekos \u2013 smagiu \u017eaidimu. Kitaip tariant kit\u0105 suprasti \u010dia padeda atsiv\u0117rimas jo(s) kalbai, jos per\u0117mimas, \u201epasimatavimas\u201c sau. \u010cia viskas gali virsti choreografija: ir futbolo \u017eaidimo judesiai, ir glostymas ir pok\u0161tai.<\/p>\n

Jie pasiduoda vienas kitam, vienas kito \u017eaidimams ir j\u0173 taisykl\u0117ms, ir tuo pa\u010diu lieka i\u0161tikimi savo gyvenimi\u0161kiems vaidmenims. Ta\u010diau nepaisant j\u0173 socialin\u0117s hierarchijos, scenoje Raimonda ir Elias \u2013 partneriai. Akivaizdu, kad a\u0161tuonmetis atlik\u0117jas ne tik turi savo nuomon\u0119, bet ir humoro jausm\u0105, jau\u010dia scen\u0105 ir savo galimybes joje. \u201eM(other)\u201c strukt\u016broje jam paliekama pakankamai vietos improvizacijai ir \u017eaismei, kuo jaunasis atlik\u0117jas, noriai ir su d\u017eiaugsmu naudojasi.<\/p>\n

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Megzdama ry\u0161\u012f su s\u016bnumi R. Gudavi\u010di\u016bt\u0117 ne tik pasiduoda jo \u017eaidimams, bet vedasi j\u012f ir \u012f savo, \u0161iuolaikinio \u0161okio judesiais nusakom\u0105 pasaul\u012f, moko jo kalbos. Ji \u012fk\u016bnija motini\u0161kas prie\u0161taras: \u0161velnum\u0105, ir tvirtyb\u0119, jaudul\u012f ir ramyb\u0119, pasitik\u0117jim\u0105 ir r\u016bpest\u012f vaiku. Ji motini\u0161kai j\u012f i\u0161kelia, ji dr\u0105siai j\u012f paleid\u017eia, ji kyla tam, kad i\u0161kelt\u0173 j\u012f ir \u017eavisi jo skryd\u017eiu. Ir \u010dia pat prabyla apie kit\u0105 motinyst\u0117s pus\u0119, ne tokias mielas motinyst\u0119 lydin\u010dias temas, kaip privatumo netekimas, nuovargis, rutina, (dis)balansas tarp vaik\u0173 \/ \u0161eimos ir darbo \/ k\u016brybos.<\/p>\n

Kartkart\u0117mis atsitraukti nuo konkretaus pasakojimo ir i\u0161laikyti platesn\u0119 perspektyv\u0105 \u017ei\u016brovams padeda nuolat kintanti, tad atlik\u0117jus prisitaikyti skatinanti scenos erdv\u0117 (scenograf\u0117 ir animacijos autor\u0117 \u2013 Medil\u0117 \u0160iaulytyt\u0117) ir garso takelyje skambantys kit\u0173 vaik\u0173 pasakojimai apie mamas. Taip \u0161ok\u0117jai vis gr\u0105\u017einami prie i\u0161eities ta\u0161ko ir am\u017einosios vaiko-mamos santyki\u0173 pusiausvyros paie\u0161kos.<\/p>\n

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Scenos menuose da\u017enai kaip vertyb\u0119 i\u0161skiriame ry\u0161\u012f tarp scenos partneri\u0173, j\u0173 jautrum\u0105 ir atid\u0105 vienas kitam. B\u016btent \u0161is ry\u0161ys \u2013 viena did\u017eiausi\u0173 spektaklio \u201eM(other)\u201c vertybi\u0173. Ta\u010diau \u0161\u012f kart\u0105 jis kiek kitoks: nepalyginamai intymesnis, stipresnis. I\u0161 jos pus\u0117s \u2013 nenusakomai jautresnis, i\u0161 jo \u2013 kupinas absoliutaus ir bes\u0105lygi\u0161ko pasitik\u0117jimo. B\u016btent \u0161io, scenoje subtiliai ir ner\u016bpestingai atskleisto partneri\u0173 ry\u0161io d\u0117ka \u201eM(other)\u201c pasakoja ne tik apie motinyst\u0119 (M), bet, svarbiausia, apie ry\u0161\u012f (other). Ry\u0161\u012f tarp dviej\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173, artim\u0105 ir labai trap\u0173, bet be galo gaj\u0173, nuolat kuriam\u0105 ir perkuriam\u0105 ry\u0161\u012f. \u201eM(other)\u201c scena tampa padidinamuoju stiklu, atskleid\u017eian\u010diu vien\u0105 artimiausi\u0173 santyki\u0173 \u2013 ry\u0161\u012f su kitu, kur\u012f atne\u0161a motinyst\u0117 ir t\u0117vyst\u0117.<\/p>\n

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Projekt\u0105 \u201e\u0160okio ir cirko aktualijos: asmenyb\u0117s, \u012fvykiai ir j\u0173 analiz\u0117, ugdymas\u201c dalinai finansuoja Spaudos, radijo ir televizijos r\u0117mimo fondas.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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